Before including any joke, ask: would I say this to their grandmother? If you hesitate, cut it. Wedding humour works best when it's affectionate, not edgy. A gentle tease about the groom's dodgy haircut in 2003 gets laughs; anything involving exes, drinking habits, or bodily functions gets winces. When in doubt, aim for chuckle not guffaw.
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